It's all fabulous

Wow, how tru are these words, thank you, I'm s...

2012-01-19T15:18:30.713Z

Wow, how tru are these words, thank you, I'm sure your friend will see sense,x

I lurve this! Just laughed mynhead off reading it!...

2011-12-16T23:11:19.633Z

I lurve this! Just laughed mynhead off reading it! X

Glad your back! Xx

2011-12-15T23:00:24.543Z

Glad your back! Xx

Still waititng...?? I'm now an expert in nipp...

2011-06-27T07:35:13.054+01:00

Still waititng...?? I'm now an expert in nipple pads-, thanks for that one guys!

Matt here! I’m loving the fact that other comment...

2011-06-23T09:12:50.385+01:00

Matt here! I’m loving the fact that other commenter’s love my comments in their comments - does that make sense? I’ve never commented on a blog before but i guess i picked a gud'en to start with didn’t i!
So, Fab is keeping her guard up, understandable and MR A - WHERE WAS THE SERENADE EH? nah only joking mate. My other half is sitting here telling me what to type, she says "your gonna realise and want to do something and it will be too late" - she is a positive little thing isn’t she! Seriously though guys, I really thought we may have had a reunion of some sorts, it’s like that part of a film where you expect there to be a happy ending but then BAM WAM BOOM it all goes sour and the lead role dies or something! don’t get me wrong, I hope both of you don’t die, god I’m digging a hole here aren’t I, but you get where I’m coming from.
I suppose Fabs comment is quite final isn’t it? But come on Mr A, that it? You gonna stick with the g/f and one day wake up and realise "shit man biggest mistake ever"? If it’s any consolation Fab, if I wasn’t happily married with a baby on the way, I’d ask you out! My wife gives me her full blessing on this one, we’ve read your blogs and you sound like one heck of a chick. Which brings me on to more words of wisdom from "the wife" - "fab needs to find someone who would walk over hot coals for her, someone who wants to put a smile on her face, a guy that is thinking how he can do something for her that day to make her feel special, the guy that turns up with a thoughtful gift, sends love notes and whisks her away on romantic shack ups" WARNING!!!! ANYONE THINK SHE IS GIVING ME A FEW HINTS HERE?
So there we have it, Mr A last telling us he is going to have to finish his relationship because Fab means to much to him and then now Fab telling us that she has got to move on - what don’t we know? Has Mr A left it to long? Will Fab ever forgive him? Will they live happily ever after>
I trust that either of you will be as polite and kind to respond to my lovely wife and I - PLEASE! She is going to have me checking this every 5 minutes!

Matt and Emma x

Thank you for all your comments again guys, I'...

2011-06-22T18:45:13.528+01:00

Thank you for all your comments again guys, I'm glad this situation has stirred such a debate, it's really given me different perspectives to think about and if it has helped anybody who has read it, in any small way, well then theres the silver lining!

So, it's getting quite hard to write on here, as well as speaking to all my readers, I've found myself speaking directly to the guy in question, or as you have called him Mr A!

Each and everyone of your comments has made me think, and I'm sure it has done the same for Mr A. We could write comment after comment on here, but Mr A didn't climb up my building singing (sorry Matt), and I haven't been as strong as I should have :-( ...so Mr A needs to concentrate on finding happiness with his g/f and I need to concentrate on moving on...

Some of your analogies on the situation sound like a fairy tale, but life isn't a fairy tale all the time is it?

Ive ready my original blog posting back and it screams "I'm angry" which I was; I'm not now...I'm just sad. Mr A is a good guy regardless of what opinion you may have formed from my blog, this situation has just brought out sides to each of us that aren't our best...

Anyhow guys, keep on commenting, giving me your opinions and views...and I'll keep you all updated on what's happening next in the dating life of Miss Fab!

Love...me x

It's all fabulous x

Ps. Anyone think that Mr A should start his own blog with his natural writing flair?

What a lovely blog. I have met some of my closest ...

2011-06-21T15:11:47.258+01:00

What a lovely blog. I have met some of my closest friends in my adulthood which has made me realise how privileged I am to have these people walk into my life. Sounds like you have an excellent variety of people in your life and I agree, it does reflect the person that you are! x

I agree with last blogger, I think Matt sounds lik...

2011-06-21T12:13:33.860+01:00

I agree with last blogger, I think Matt sounds like great fun! Loved the story about the nipple pads now that did make me giggle. Okay....so where is Mr A these days? Hello Mr A, are you out there??? Or have you been wiped away in a tsunami of love for fab? Who knows? One thing I do know is this: we all need up dates! Do you agree Matt? I also agree with Matt that Mr A is in love with fab and needs to make his mind up about his girlfriend, otherwise Mr A you’re going to be an unhappy chappy for a long time and when you do eventually break up with her, it could be too late with fab. I believe that fab is the catalyst to your heart, but there’s me being all soppy. Fab where are you? Long time...! Can we have one of your fabulous blogs please? Have you had anymore contact with Mr A? Honest to god, I check these blogs more than I watch the news...who needs to know Cameron’s plans for NHS reforms, or the possibility of Cheryl and Ashley Cole rekindling their love. What we do need to know is what’s what is happening in Mr A and Fabs love life?!!

two things to say.. 'cake and eat it'... m...

2011-06-17T21:19:51.313+01:00

two things to say.. 'cake and eat it'... mmmm cake...

oh where was I, how fab is Matt!

Sort it out Mr A you know you will sooner or later.

wait till you hit 40 and have come out of a marria...

2011-06-17T19:29:27.611+01:00

wait till you hit 40 and have come out of a marriage with no children, now thats a head mess..

did I want children, well not really with him but its all a bit too late now the decision has been taken out of my hands I recon but gotta just focus on what you have got and not what you havent..

xx

you ms have failed at 3 & 4 under I will not! ...

2011-06-17T19:14:06.257+01:00

you ms have failed at 3 & 4 under I will not! :)

hell ya x

2011-06-17T18:39:08.792+01:00

hell ya
x

no.

2011-06-17T13:03:43.676+01:00

no.

Ps. Is Rachel aka Fab?

2011-06-16T13:16:29.024+01:00

Ps. Is Rachel aka Fab?

Mats is back!!! First things first, I got a mentio...

2011-06-16T13:10:46.443+01:00

Mats is back!!! First things first, I got a mention from Mr A, and Fab and him spoke abut me? Well blow me down, I feel bloody famous haha! Ok let's get my serious "I'm a blog commenter" hat back on!
Mr A, you even confusing me now? You love fab so what is stopping you, mate you wouldn't have these feelings if the relationship your in was right. (Sorry fab,)but even if Fab wasn't around I don't reckon things with u and ur g/f would be hunky dorey! However, if speaking to fab was the best 20mins of your whole weekend, what you playing at? fab don't shout at me- but go and frigging hunt this girl down and sort this out!!! She's bound to not answer your calls or emails, look what youve done to her and said, but come on mate, Romeo sang a song and climbed up a bloody building!! I told my other half about your dramas yesterday, she was hooked, so expect a comment from her too, we both agreed that for two people to go the effort of even writing to each other says a lot, mr a we liked your style! What we don't get is why your still with your g/f mr a, the longer you stay with her the less chance you've got of ever getting fab back. Ok I think I'm going to be a bit biased now towards fab, it's her blog and all, so if you know you g/f is the one and you can honestly live wihtout fab in your life ever again, then I suppose it all ends here for us itsallfabulous blog addicts...don't keep me and my missus in suspense please, she's 6 months preganant and I'd much rather discuss this tonight over dinner than what she was telling me about last night - nipple pads!?!?! Matt

Well blow me down, this is like a Jackie Collins n...

2011-06-15T16:23:05.033+01:00

Well blow me down, this is like a Jackie Collins novel! Seriously if this is spotted by the right people we have a hollywood blockbuster in the making! Mr A why are you sobsurprised that fab is moving away? You've wrote all over her blog how much you love your girlfriend and how confused you are over your feelings for her, what else is she meant to do? The fact that she is friends with your family and friends can only be a derriverative of the friendship you once had, that has nothing to d do with your situation between yourselves. Ms Fab you have been a very silly girl, getting involved with someone who has a g/f is never going to make you happy! Why would you want to be second place? These men are al the same! Now I'm not just blaming mr a here, you both got into it, but it looks like fab youve realised and are doing the write thing, mr a you made your choice to stay with g/f so you need to as they say "make your bed and lie in it", fab if this guy really does love you then this isn't over here, the seeds of hurt may have already been planted to deep in your heart but sometimes when you have a connection with somebody we take that chance. My only advice is never live life with regrets, I did and I lost the one person who I loved forever, I can't turn back the time now and since I have never been 100% happy, he moved on and fell in love with someone else and it broke my heart, how could I have been so stupid, oh well that's a cross I have to bear, take care and best of luck x

Mr A, I really hope that this blog doesn’t sound p...

2011-06-15T00:31:58.604+01:00

Mr A, I really hope that this blog doesn’t sound patronising and I apologise if it comes across that way. However, maybe you need to ask yourself what it is that is missing from the relationship that you have with your girlfriend? If the relationship that you have with your girlfriend is so wonderful and you knew from the first time the two of you met, that you would spend the rest of your life with her.... Why did and I quote “one drunken night the inevitable happened”? If you where as happy as you say you where with your g/f this situation could have been avoided. I’m no saint believe me, I have got myself into many sticky situations over the years that have caused me much heart ache and I do know in some ways where you are coming from. I’m just trying to point out a few facts which I’m sure deep down you already know. I honestly don’t mean to sound like I am being offensive or derogatory towards you I really don't. I’m a stranger looking in on a situation, so it easy for me to give advice or voice opinions that maybe your friends wouldn’t. Nevertheless, what is clear here is that you you are paralysed by love for fab.
It is obvious that you’re a nice person and that you don't want anyone to get hurt, but the crucial point is this: you have got yourself into a situation that is more than likely causing you sleepless nights. The vital question is - what made you get into this situation in the first place? When you meet the love of your life (and believe me I am speaking from experience, I am very privileged) that person is usually the first port of call to turn to for advice, help and general day to day issues, maybe you can with your g/f who knows?
Furthermore, the fact that you have had these sexual relations with fab , means that your living a lie with your g/f. My point is this..fab has something that you don’t get from your g/f and you need to work out whether your okay with that special something missing from your relationship with your g/f. Missing from your life? I actually feel for you Mr A as it sounds like you are going through a tough time in your life. However, we make our own destiny although sometimes we have to realise what it is we really want out of life.x ps. I still think an ok mag deal is in the pipeline!

Come on mr a, uve told us in 2 comments now that y...

2011-06-14T23:04:19.439+01:00

Come on mr a, uve told us in 2 comments now that you luv fab, that you both have crossed "that" line (ahem,,) u cudnt I imagine your life without her and u think u are going to have to finish with your g/f to have her just as a friend? Wake up boyo and smell the coffee! This is what it's all about, I'm afraid to say that this is what falling proparly in love is about! Your questioning whether you would want her as a girlfriend, well if all she meant to you was a "friend" then I wouldn't be even writing this., we all have special friends but ones you sleep with, profess to love and couldn't imagine life without are more than just friends ..u need to sort your act out, it must be so hard for fab to read things like 'will I love her more as a girlfriend!' Why are men so narrow minded! Your the one telling us about the electricity and the fact that speaking to her for 20 mins was the best part of ur weekend?!?! Erhhhh duhhh!!! Why can't you see it? Why aren't you grabbing hold of something that obviously means so much to you rather than letting it walk away as fab is! Ya know what you men confuse the living daylights out of me! Rant over! Apologies Mr A but it just annoys me that its taken fab to tell u she loves u and to then painfully walk away for you to start getting your act together...for all we kow it cud be too late for u wi fab now.I hope it isn't. as u can see similar like this has happened to me! fab come on speak to us!!! Xxxxq

Hey guys.. im still here, as tormented as ever. i...

2011-06-14T13:41:47.509+01:00

Hey guys.. im still here, as tormented as ever.

i had the pleasure of talking to fab at the weekend, i know now shes trying her best to really not to speak to me. No reply to call or email.
its so surreal this situation now.
my brother and cousin and there girlfriends accompanied fab to hers for drinks on friday, my sister attended the take that concert with fab on saturday and my mother does not stop preaching about fab in our home.
talk about a rock and a hard place.
i have to go through the pain of losing my friend but everyone else in my life are getting more friendly! wtf?? This is my friend, or apparently not...

anyway to a more happy note..speaking to fab..it was for the most, the best 20mins i had all weekend.
you will probably find the electricity between our conversations has not disappeared and is that high it would probabaly power the whole of lethoso for a month! we smiled and laughed and to your pleasure matt i sure, we even spoke about you!
i dont think you understand what these past few blogs and your comments have made to my life. it is right they have added to the mental fight i have everyday between the choices i have made or need to make.
i take console in your comments and thank you but they do add fuel to the fire.
i dont know if i can carry on in my relationship as this friendship means so much to me, but to finish a relationship because a friend is refusing to speak to me, is that right?? i mean, imagine if i finish with my girlfriend and yet i still only want to remain friends? would this be out of the question too? can i only be friends with fab if i commit myself to her whole and unreservidly? i mean talking this honest to strangers is weird, being in love with two people is weird but being blackmailed into a friendship that has got to be up there,no??
i mean i love rachel but is that to say i'll love her more as a girlfriend? there are no suritys in this situation except for the one that is, if i finish with my g/f i will get fab to speak to me??
now as you can see its a weird situation.
when we spoke u can tell theres somethin there that you cannot find with other people, no matter how many other people u meet, but thats also doesnt mean its going to make me more happy than what i am now?? its driving me fucking crazy and the more this carrys on the more fab moves away...

Haha ok mag, I like it! Come on guys, give ya head...

2011-06-14T12:42:19.882+01:00

Haha ok mag, I like it! Come on guys, give ya heads a wobble! Love Matt-again!

I agree, I feel like I know them. Don't forget...

2011-06-13T15:28:53.714+01:00

I agree, I feel like I know them. Don't forget us Ms fabulous and Mr A. I think if these two get hitched OK magazine will be covering the wedding.

Glad you agree fellow commenter! I feel like I kno...

2011-06-13T14:53:43.540+01:00

Glad you agree fellow commenter! I feel like I know these two now, reckon if they ended up gettin hitched we'd get an invite?

Is that it??? You and Mr A are going your separate...

2011-06-13T11:06:27.460+01:00

Is that it??? You and Mr A are going your separate ways? What a shame. I was really hoping for the two of you to rekindle your love or even try and work on your friendship. I've been following this blog for days now. Where is Mr A? I agree with Matt We want more!!!!

Me again! So thats its Fab! Come on I cant have t...

2011-06-13T10:43:07.359+01:00

Me again! So thats its Fab! Come on I cant have the saga end here? Jesus what am I going to look forward to reading? Ive gone from Sky Sports to a dating blog!!! Mr A is that it too? Come on guys, give me something more - PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you to you all for your comments, I love the...

2011-06-13T10:07:57.740+01:00

Thank you to you all for your comments, I love them.

As this posting is called "the end" there really is nothing left to say in response to Mr A's comments, he is entitled to his view on things as I said he would. And to repeat, I hope he finds happiness, where ever life takes him. I think as some of you have advised, moving on and getting on with each of lives is the best option all round and I agree.

So, hopefully by reading about my car crash of a friendship with Mr A, it has taught you all a very valuable lesson...

Thanks guys x